You know, when you actually take time to step back, have a look around, and see the things going on around you, you actually realise that there is more to life... More to life than people hating you, passing judgement, and not having respect for you. Yes life is a ball... It really is... And the things you get to see happen around you when you actually OBSERVE are pretty amazing. I mean, really...
So I guess Yinghao's method of living life might be quite insightful. You learn a lot. But you're not involved. I guess, being involved is a natural path of life. You have to be if you want to learn. Of course, taking a step back and evaluating the current situation is undoubtedly just as important. Yes yes, evaluate your surroundings. When you're done with your tango, it really isn't over because more people will want to 'have your hand in this dance'. It is not so much whether you accept this or not, rather, you must realise that the more important thing is what you do with what you've got...